i would be hiding the url still, but my ex, who is the reason for remaking, sought out my new blog even though they knew i didn’t want them to find it :^)
And to elaborate:
i broke up with said ex over a month ago and established that i was done with the relationship and I wanted to be left alone. After making that clear, they continued to send me texts and repeatedly call me. They told various people we were still together although I said we weren’t, and even went to the lengths of telling people not to romantically interact with me because we were going through a “rough patch.” We weren’t. They also told friends of mine to not let me hook up with anyone at a concert that took place a month after we broke up. Eventually, I blocked them on all social platforms because I felt like I had no space and knew all my posts on here were seen by them, because the IP tracker showed they were constantly on my blog. Deciding I was sick of feeling like I was being watched, I remade, but not even 24 hours after remaking, they found my blog by going through the notes on the posts of my best friend’s blog (the IP tracker on my new blog showed that their IP address was referred to my new blog via my friend’s post.) They have told someone that they know they are violating my space and knowingly continue to do so. I have been extremely quiet and civil about the whole situation until know, because I’m very upset by feeling violated and knowing that they have tried to control my actions/interactions, or others’ interactions with me.
On top of all this Jamie has been told multiple times (by at least 5 people) to give her space (which was more for Alanna’s sake than his) and he would tell us “You’re right! I’ll give her space!” only later to find out that he was harassing her via text/phone/tumblr and god knows what else.
Alanna has said she made it very clear to him that their relationship was over and I tried to gently tell him that but he was stuck in a fantasy world where it was just a “rough patch”.
I didn’t look too much into it at the time just because I know break ups are hard to go through but after a few weeks of posting about her nearly everyday and calling her out by her name I just had to ignore him because it was creeping me out. Eventually things got so bad (He wouldn’t stop messaging my girlfriend who is Alanna’s best friend) I had to sit him down and basically tell him that if he didn’t quit bothering everyone with this that I would post about how he was stalking and harassing her on here and so he agrees that he’s gone too far and will quit… Less than 24 hours later he begins posting about her again and messaging my girlfriend again about what I said and claims that I “threatened him” (which is ironic because he was threatening to kill himself every week unless Alanna talked to him)
(i censored out her name because this was from another post and i wasn’t sure if she’d want me to say her name at the time)
This is from August 11th if that gives you any idea how long this has been going on.
less than 24 hours later he started making vague posts about her again
this was from a few days before
Anyways! If you follow Jamie please unfollow him because he’s creepy as hell and literally stalked and harassed alanna into making a new blog! (which he then found again via my girlfriend’s tumblr wow!)
i would be hiding the url still, but my ex, who is the reason for remaking, sought out my new blog even though they knew i didn’t want them to find it :^)
And to elaborate:
i broke up with said ex over a month ago and established that i was done with the relationship and I wanted to be left alone. After making that clear, they continued to send me texts and repeatedly call me. They told various people we were still together although I said we weren’t, and even went to the lengths of telling people not to romantically interact with me because we were going through a “rough patch.” We weren’t. They also told friends of mine to not let me hook up with anyone at a concert that took place a month after we broke up. Eventually, I blocked them on all social platforms because I felt like I had no space and knew all my posts on here were seen by them, because the IP tracker showed they were constantly on my blog. Deciding I was sick of feeling like I was being watched, I remade, but not even 24 hours after remaking, they found my blog by going through the notes on the posts of my best friend’s blog (the IP tracker on my new blog showed that their IP address was referred to my new blog via my friend’s post.) They have told someone that they know they are violating my space and knowingly continue to do so. I have been extremely quiet and civil about the whole situation until know, because I’m very upset by feeling violated and knowing that they have tried to control my actions/interactions, or others’ interactions with me.
i would be hiding the url still, but my ex, who is the reason for remaking, sought out my new blog even though they knew i didn’t want them to find it :^)
okay i remade and if we’re mutuals feel free to message me for the url! i have a queue set up for a few days, but after that i’ll just be on my new blog
